She can physically feel me there, but gets no great stimulation from it. She can feel clitoral stimulation and can orgasm through it. The other thing is that she had cystitis during the first couple of months of our relationship, but for the last two months has had no symptoms or anything, yet she is still on antibiotics. Could this have anything to do with the problem? This business is slowly tearing us apart and leaving her very frustrated, and I'm not sure what else to try. We've tried various positions and dildoes. Most women can only reach orgasm if the clitoris is stimulated.
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Sign up or log in to share. I think penetration is kind of the point for a woman too. Even though a lot of women need their clitoris rubbed during sex, penetration does feel really good. And mentally it does feel different then having your clitoris rubbed. Obviously I can't know for sure but the feeling is probably comparable to getting a handjob verses having sex. Even if the person is able to stimulate you better with their hand, there is something very mentally satisfying with having them in you or being in them, in a guys case.
Penetration does not give my girl enough stimulation
A leading blog on the science of sex, love, and relationships, written by social psychologist Dr. Justin Lehmiller. Why is deeper penetration better for a lot of women when the most sensitive parts of the vagina are on the outside and close to the labia and clitoris? Good question!
Think of porn, which will more often show bow jobs than a man going down on a woman, which shows fingering as sharp-nailed fingers sliding in and out as the woman writhes around in ecstasy, which shows women reaching orgasm within seconds of a dildo or dick entering her. None of this should be news. And yet, penetration is still held up as the be all and end all. We still place value on the idea of losing ones virginity as having penetrative sex, ignoring that for many women who have sex with women, this definition would make them virgins after multiple sexual partners.